How to Talk Less on a Sales Call
Have you ever talked so much you created a brand-new objection? Most salespeople have. The fix is simple to describe and hard to practice: ask more, pause more and stop when you have answered.
To talk less on a sales call, prepare a few strong questions before the call, ask one at a time and let the buyer finish, pause before you respond, answer only the question that was asked, and stop talking once you have answered. Summarize what you heard instead of adding more information, and check what else they need. Silence often leads buyers to share what matters most.
One of my favorite moments in my sales training is when I ask the room: have you ever talked so much you created a brand-new objection? Almost every hand goes up, mine included. Nervous or excited salespeople fill every silence with features, stories and reassurance, and somewhere in all that talking, the buyer finds a new reason to hesitate.
I often tell a simple story. A customer asks, can you deliver it by Friday? The salesperson starts talking about quality, the warranty and all the available options. The customer interrupts: but can it be here Friday?
Prepare questions, not a speech
Go into each call with three or four strong questions about the buyer’s situation, goals and concerns. Questions keep the focus on them and give you something to do with your nerves besides talk. See Sales Discovery Questions.
Six habits for listening more on calls
- Bring questions. Three or four strong ones.
- Ask one at a time. Then let them finish.
- Pause before you respond. Two seconds changes everything.
- Answer the question asked. Can it be here Friday?
- Stop when you have answered. Resist adding more.
- Summarize instead of adding. “So what matters most is…”
Embrace the pause
The pause is one of the most powerful tools in sales. When a buyer finishes speaking, wait a moment before you respond. Often they will add the most important part of what they wanted to say. Silence feels much longer to you than to them. Sometimes silence is the strategy. See The Power of the Pause in Sales Conversations.
Answer the question that was asked
When a buyer asks a question, answer that question, clearly and briefly, then stop. If they want more, they will ask. Spotlight, not floodlight. Handle the one issue on the table completely before moving on, rather than trying to address everything at once.
Summarize instead of adding
When you feel the urge to add more information, summarize what you heard instead: so what matters most to you is scheduling and reporting, without paying for features your team will not use. That shows you listened, confirms you understood and keeps the focus on them. Then ask what else they need.
Listening is the first step of the LAARC method and a big part of my sales keynote, You Are Capable of More Sales. See also How to Listen So People Feel Heard.
Talking too much creates new objections. Bring questions instead of a speech, ask one at a time, pause before responding, answer only what was asked, stop when you have answered and summarize instead of adding more.
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