Sales Myths New Reps Believe
Many new salespeople struggle not because they lack talent but because they believe a few things about selling that are not true.
Common sales myths include that great salespeople are born, not made, that you have to be pushy to succeed, that objections mean no, that talking more sells more, that price is always the real issue and that a no is final. In reality, sales skills can be learned, the best sellers listen and help, objections signal interest, questions sell better than speeches, value matters more than price and many nos are not yet.
Early in my career I sold for a living, and I still lead sales teams today. Over the years I have watched many new reps struggle, and it is rarely because they lack talent. More often, they are holding onto a few beliefs about sales that make the job harder than it needs to be.
Here are the myths I see most often.
Six sales myths and the truth
- Myth: great salespeople are born. Reality: listening, questioning and persistence can all be learned.
- Myth: you have to be pushy. Reality: nobody wants to be overcome. They want to be understood.
- Myth: objections mean no. Reality: objections are vital signs. Silence is the bad sign.
- Myth: talking more sells more. Reality: talking too much creates new objections.
- Myth: it is always about price. Reality: price objections are usually value objections.
- Myth: no means never. Reality: a no is often just a not yet.
You do not have to be pushy
Overcoming objections makes sales sound like a competition. But nobody wants to be overcome. They want to be understood. The best salespeople I know act more like a therapist who calmly listens than a debater trying to win. See Nobody Wants to Be Overcome.
Objections are a good sign
Objections in sales are like vital signs in care. If you hear nothing, the prospect is either disinterested or gone. If you hear objections, there is still life in the conversation. See Why Objections Are a Good Sign.
Price is rarely the whole story
When buyers say the price is too high, they often mean they do not yet see enough value, or they are paying for things they will not use. Instead of debating dollars, get curious: what are you comparing us to? A discount will not fix shoes that do not fit. See How to Handle Price Objections.
Persistence wins
Many of the biggest deals I have seen came after a long string of nos. A no is often just a not yet. New reps who keep going, follow up with value and learn from every conversation tend to outlast those with more natural charm.
These ideas are the foundation of my sales keynote, You Are Capable of More Sales. See also How to Deal With Rejection in Sales and The Power of the Pause.
New reps often struggle because of a few myths. Sales skills can be learned, pushiness backfires, objections signal interest, talking less sells more, price objections are usually value objections and many nos are really not yet.
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