When to Leave a Comfortable Job
Sometimes the ceiling in your building is lower than the ceiling inside of you. Here is how to tell when it is time to go, and how to make the move without being reckless.
It may be time to leave a comfortable job when you have stopped growing, the role no longer stretches you, you can see the ceiling clearly and you keep imagining a bigger version of your work somewhere else. Before you leave, try to grow where you are, get honest about what you are running toward rather than away from, and plan for the risk so fear does not make the decision for you.
I had a great job at a company I loved, working with people I enjoyed. I could see myself retiring there. Then I made a decision that surprised a lot of people: I left to help run a startup with no processes and no training manual. I pulled from my savings and my retirement to buy ownership, and I signed the office lease knowing I was personally liable if anything went wrong. If it failed, it would affect my family.
It was scary. Fear can keep us frozen in comfortable places. But wearing every hat at that young company, learning roles because there was nobody else to fill them, I grew in ways I never would have otherwise. That company grew 10x in two years.
When the ceiling is lower than you are
The phrase I use for this moment is simple: the ceiling in your building is lower than the ceiling inside of you. It does not mean the company is bad. It means the room you are in is no longer big enough for who you are becoming.
Signs it may be time to go
- You have stopped growing. The work is comfortable and you have not learned anything meaningful in a long time.
- You can see the ceiling. There is no realistic next step where you are.
- You keep imagining something bigger. And the thought does not go away.
- You are doing fine and feel restless. Comfort and growth have started pulling in opposite directions.
- You have tried to grow where you are. And the conversations have gone nowhere.
Try to grow where you are first
Leaving is not always the answer. Before you go, have an honest career conversation with your manager about what you want. Ask for a stretch project. Learn a new skill. Many people find more room than they expected once they ask. See Feeling Stuck in Your Career?
Run toward, not away
The best moves are toward something specific, not just away from something frustrating. Ask yourself what you are running toward. If the answer is clear, the risk is easier to carry. If the answer is only “anywhere but here,” take more time.
Plan for the risk
Leaving a comfortable job does not have to be reckless. Know your numbers. Talk with your family. Decide what you will do if it does not work. When fear has a plan attached, it stops making the decision for you. Like stepping into cold water, the first moments are uncomfortable, and then you adapt. The water did not change. You did.
Breaking through the comfort ceiling is the heart of my signature keynote, You Are Capable of More. See also How to Bet on Yourself, The Comfort Ceiling and How to Handle Fear of Change.
It may be time to go when the ceiling in your building is lower than the ceiling inside of you. Try to grow where you are first, make sure you are running toward something specific, and plan for the risk so fear does not decide for you.
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